Perfect Diversion
The Boxer, Part 1: Golden Gloves Beginning

Final Knock-Out Victory

Bud1954

Dad was always proud of the fact that in all of his boxing years and championship bouts, he never got knocked out.

 

 

Bud1953

Dad was always the one delivering the knock-out punch.  He did lose a couple of times, but only by decisions.  He never was on the receiving end of a knock-out blow.

And, as he took his first breath in Heaven yesterday, his record was still intact.

 

Dad 5-13-15 (1)

Alzheimer's tried to defeat him.

This was the last coherent conversation I had with Dad, on May 13, right after he had taken a very nasty fall which ultimately led to his passing yesterday.  He smiled when I told him he looked like he'd had a rough boxing match, and I wondered how Rocky Marciano looked.  

When I got serious, tearfully hugging him and telling him I was so sorry he got hurt and had to go through all this suffering, his open blue eye sparkled at me and his mind was clearer than it had been for days or would ever be again in my presence.

"God has a perfect plan," he patted my arm and told me.  "We just don't understand what it is."

How prophetic that would be in my life, as just 6 days later I found out I had cancer.

"God has a perfect plan."  Even from Heaven, Daddy's words are comforting me just like he's comforted me through many tough times over my 58 years as his daughter.

Alzheimer's had him on the ropes many times, but Dad never gave up.  Jesus has always been in his corner and eventually, when he'd fought long and hard enough, God interceded and turned the tables, delivering Death the ultimate knock-out punch, and took our sweet Daddy Home.

While we grieve him and hang onto the precious memories we all have of Dad, we would never be selfish enough to want him back.  He's now living what he's strived for all of his life, eternally in the presence of God, with a new healthy body and a perfect brain again! And I know I will be there with him someday, when my God-given purpose on this earth has also been fulfilled. 

 

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We love you, Dad!

And we're so very proud you gave each one of your children a part of your strong, fighting spirit. (Even his genes were strong!)

We all knew that even Alzheimer's couldn't beat our Daddy...he couldn't possible lose when he had Jesus in his corner to help Dad deliver...

...his final knock-out victory.

 

(In tribute to my amazing Dad, as we're giving him a grand celebration of his life, the first few days of next week I will repost a 3-part interview I did with him a few years ago, before Alzheimer's got a firm grip on him.  He is one-of-a-kind, and I'm so proud he is my Daddy!)  

 

Comments

Terri Chapman

Terry, Wonderful as always. God has gifted you with a precious gift of writing and you are using it so perfectly. What a great tribute to your Dad, as he fought the good fight and now has won his golden crown of victory.

Love you all so much!!

Phyllis Mattheis

Terry...
Just read your dad's obit in today's Pal-Item. You must have written it. We always enjoyed Bud and Lois. I look forward to reading your interview.
You have been in my thoughts this past week, since you were to start treatment. Has that been postponed?
Sincere condolences,
Phyllis and Jerry Mattheis

Kathy Pressel

Terry, Your dad was such a loving father, grandfather, great-grandfather and faithful Raider fan! He's celebrating his new body and mind in heaven. I know how you feel it's just been one month since my daddy went to meet his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. As much as I miss him he's finally reunited with my momma and has a new pain-free body; for that I truly am thankful. My prayers are with you, your family and especially your sweet momma. Kathy

Gerri

Oh Terry- my heart goes out to you all... You have such a gift with your writing.... Hugs to you and your family through these coming days... And thank God for those words of hope He gave you via your father in your dad's last days. ❤️ Gerri

Betty Patrick

I'm so so sorry for your loss, guys. It's never easy and it takes time to heal when we lose our beloved family. I'm just very glad you have such wonderful memories of your dad to cherish. Peace be with you!

wilma stockberger


Elbert and I have many good memories we will share with you one of these days.His begin when he and Bud were very young, growing up together. Mine mostly after he and Lois were married.

Love and prayers.

Jackie Rhoades Troendle

What a sweet tribute to your Dad! I know the grief of losing a parent and at the same time rejoicing they are now whole and pain free living in heaven. May God bring you and your family comfort in the days, weeks and months ahead.

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